How Human Design Impacts Career Success feat. Sheila M. Wilkinson (Part II)

Sheila M. Wilkinson is a lawyer, social worker, consultant, and career transition coach. Sheila also talks about her mission to help lawyers make aligned decisions, set boundaries, and focus on what they truly want to do rather than what they think they should do. She believes in reconnecting the intellectual self with the emotional self and offers guidance to lawyers in this process.

LISTEN TO LEARN

  • About Human Design as a tool for aligning one’s energy with their natural design
  • The importance of holistic approaches in coaching and social work
  • The impact of addressing and working through personal shadows and fears

WE ALSO DISCUSS

  • The importance of not judging oneself for emotions that arise
  • Prioritizing self-care and sleep for optimal functioning
  • The tendency of lawyers to overanalyze and overthink

Too busy to start a podcast?

Skip the boring stuff! Work with KD Creative to launch a podcast in one month and get your business in the ears of your ideal customers. Visit skiptheboringstuff.com to create your podcast today.

How Human Design Impacts Career Success feat. Sheila M. Wilkinson (Part II)

<iframe width="100%" height="180" frameborder="no" scrolling="no" seamless="" src="https://share.transistor.fm/e/a2395bb1"></iframe>

How Human Design Impacts Career Success feat. Sheila M. Wilkinson (Part II)How Human Design Impacts Career Success feat. Sheila M. Wilkinson (Part II)

About This Episode

Sheila M. Wilkinson’s Background

Sheila M. Wilkinson founded a coaching business that focuses on helping lawyers create a joyful and thriving life. Through her holistic approach, she combines her background in social work with human design principles to guide her clients in aligning their energy and making decisions that are true to their authentic selves. Sheila believes that lawyers often find themselves stuck in a cycle of overthinking and burnout, and she aims to break this pattern by helping them tap into their true passions and desires. She understands lawyers' unique challenges and provides practical tools and strategies to help them navigate their careers with more fulfillment and balance.

"If you're just doing all the things that you think you should be doing, or that somebody told you that you were good at, or you've been on this road, but you've got a little pull, pull, pull, urge, urge, urge inside you desire to do something else," shares Sheila M. Wilkinson on You Are A Lawyer.

In this episode, Sheila discuss the creative side of lawyers and the importance of acknowledging and expressing emotions. She emphasizes the need to let emotions flow freely and not judge oneself for feeling a certain way. She also highlights the interconnectedness of different aspects of the law and how personal experiences can shape legal arguments.

Why Law School

Sheila chose law school because she wanted to make a difference and affect change within the legal system. As an indigenous girl from South Louisiana, she recognized the need for representation and advocacy for marginalized communities. She saw becoming a lawyer as a means to have a voice and create meaningful impact within the legal field.

"The better way for me to do that wasn't from the social work perspective, but to do it from the legal perspective, because then I could actually be inside the system that I want to affect change in," reflects Sheila M. Wilkinson on Episode 126 of You Are a Lawyer.

Furthermore, Sheila's decision to pursue law was also influenced by her desire for security and self-sufficiency. Growing up with a strong work ethic instilled in her, she wanted to ensure her own financial stability and independence. By choosing law school, Sheila aimed to combine her passion for social justice with the practicality of a stable career.

<iframe width="560" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/x49AVxCuVvo?si=7Ry6EVv_Lq9CFm85" title="YouTube video player" frameborder="0" allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share" allowfullscreen></iframe>

What is Human Design?

Human Design is a paradigm and tool that helps individuals align their energy in a way that is unique to their design. It combines various paradigms to provide a holistic approach to understanding oneself. In the episode, Sheila M. Wilkinson explains how Human Design allows individuals to embrace their emotions without judgment. 

"We are shooting ourselves, we are judging ourselves for the emotion that's coming up.," explains Sheila M. Wilkinson, on this episode of You Are a Lawyer.

By recognizing and accepting our emotions, Human Design enables individuals to have conversations and make decisions that are in alignment with their true selves. Sheila emphasizes the importance of understanding one's Human Design in making decisions and living a joyful and thriving life. She believes that following one's unique design leads to a quicker path towards personal fulfillment. Human Design provides individuals with the tools to make decisions that are in alignment with their authentic selves, allowing them to live a life that is true to their desires and aspirations.

Lawyer Side Hustles

Sheila's coaching business focuses on helping lawyers create a joyful and thriving life. Through her holistic approach, she combines her background in social work with human design principles to guide her clients in aligning their energy and making decisions that are true to their authentic selves. Sheila believes that lawyers often find themselves stuck in a cycle of overthinking and burnout, and she aims to break this pattern by helping them tap into their true passions and desires. She understands the unique challenges that lawyers face and provides practical tools and strategies to help them navigate their careers with more fulfillment and balance.

“The sooner you understand the distinction and … how we are designed to make decisions … you give yourself permission to follow that quicker … you will get to where you want to be,” shares Sheila M. Wilkinson in Episode 126 of You Are a Lawyer.

Sheila's approach combines her background as a licensed social worker with her legal expertise, allowing her to guide her clients through the emotional and intellectual aspects of their careers. She encourages her clients to reflect on their experiences and goals, providing them with the support and guidance they need to navigate the challenges of the legal profession.

Join the FREE mailing list!

Get behind-the-scenes content from You Are A Lawyer. 

1) Visit www.youarealawyer.com

2) Add your email address to the Subscribe pop-up box OR

3) Enter your email address on the right side of the screen

4) Get emails from me (I won't fill your inbox with junk)!

Contact Sheila M. Wilkinson

Sheila M. Wilkinson is licensed to practice law in the state of Louisiana.

Learn more about Sheila: SheilaWilkinson.com

Interact with You Are A Lawyer

Kyla Denanyoh hosts the You Are A Lawyer podcast. 

Follow the podcast:

YouTube: youtube.com/@youarealawyer

Instagram: instagram.com/youarealawyer

Twitter:  twitter.com/YouAreA_Lawyer

Website: youarealawyer.com

<iframe width="560" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/vQEFFBO78is?si=2hoYwXS7YkRdxCIE" title="YouTube video player" frameborder="0" allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share" allowfullscreen></iframe>

Recent Episodes

How To Change Your Legal Career at Any Age feat. Anne Hamer

In this episode of the You Are A Lawyer podcast, host Kyla interviews Anne Hamer, a family lawyer from Nashville, Tennessee. Anne shares her journey from Memphis to New York City for law school and discusses how she ended up in Nashville. She also talks about the challenges of having a southern accent in a northern law school and how it didn't deter her from pursuing her education. Listen to Anne's story and insights on building a successful law career. "You can make a life change in the middle of it and come up with something new," shares Anne Hamer on the You Are A Lawyer podcast.
Read and listen here

How Executive Coaching Impacts Your Career feat. Laura Terrell

Laura Terrell discusses the importance of challenging our assumptions and the need to advocate for ourselves. Laura earned her master's degree in law school and worked in the public sector before becoming an executive coach and in-house counsel with a non-profit organization. Listen to Episode 103 as Laura explains her career journey and her insights as a lawyer.
Read and listen here

How To Grow Your Law Firm with Informal Networking feat. Brent Nelson

Brent Nelson is an international tax and estate lawyer based in Arizona, specializing in working with high-income international families. What he comically calls “rich people law,” Brent found his niche in tax law during law school and focuses on developing meaningful connections through informal networking and social media.
Read and listen here

How Mindset Impacts the Bar Exam feat. Yohanna Romero Baca

Yohanna Romero Baca, a bar exam coach and former immigration attorney, shares her personal experience of not passing the bar exam and how it inspired her to help others succeed. She discusses her unique approach to bar exam preparation, emphasizing the importance of mindset and effective writing skills. Listen as Yohanna explains how passing the bar exam can open doors to career opportunities.
Read and listen here

How Authenticity Impacts Your Legal Career feat. Bianca Jordan

Bianca Jordan applied to 500 jobs before opening her law firm IN 2014. Now, MANY law firm wants to hire Bianca, but she's found great success helping families and business owners with their immigration paperwork. Bianca has also begun coaching lawyers to become better business owners. Learn about the brazen power of Bianca Jordan on the You Are A Lawyer Podcast.
Read and listen here

How To Stay Motivated in Your Legal Career feat. Luis Scott

Luis Scott, managing partner of Bader Scott Injury Lawyers, an eight-figure law firm based in Atlanta, Georgia, shares his journey from growing up in a poor family to becoming a successful lawyer and business owner. He discusses the importance of making a massive contribution to his family and how his firm's commitment to excellence has led to its success. Tune in to hear more about his story and his unique perspective on life.
Read and listen here

How Clerkship Transparency Creates Stronger Lawyers feat. Aliza Shatzman

Aliza Shatzman is a judicial clerkship advocate. After a poor clerkship experience, Aliza created the Legal Accountability Project to bring transparency and accountability to the federal clerkship process. Find out how this pioneer and founder ensures the next generation of clerks is protected from bad judges.
Read and listen here

How To Negotiate Like a Disruptive Lawyer feat. Bill Mitchell

Bill Mitchell is a litigation manager, negotiation coach, and trial disruptor. Known as “Trial Bill,” Bill uses his experiences identifying trial red flags and nuances to teach other lawyers to streamline trials and settlements.
Read and listen here

How To Be an Exceptional Lawyer feat. Marco Brown

Marco Brown earns a lot of money and enjoys being a lawyer. But the truth is, Marco didn’t become an exceptional lawyer until he forced clients to pay for the exceptional work completed by his law firm. In Episode 92, Marco Brown discusses the power of communication and why he uses money to create an exceptional law firm.
Read and listen here

How To Revitalize Your Legal Career with Coaching feat. Whitney Harvey

Whitney wants women lawyers to STAY in the law by considering different practice areas, editing their resumes, and improving their soft skills to create their own success.
Read and listen here

How to Advocate as a Board Membership feat. Samora Legros

Samora Legros sits on the Board of the Max Cadet Foundation, an organization created to celebrate his grandfather, a lawyer, judge, and dentist. Created with a dental clinic based in Port-au-Prince, Haiti, the Max Cadet Foundation serves children and adults living n Haiti by providing them with better dental care access.
Read and listen here

How To Skip the Boring Stuff in Podcasting feat. Kyla Denanyoh

Ready to clear your to-do list? Skip the boring stuff and stop editing your podcast, uploading content at the last minute, and sitting on content. Work with KD Creative to hire a podcast manager so you can create faster and skip the boring stuff. Visit skiptheboringstuff.com for more details. You’re the talent! Go back to recording and skip the boring stuff.
Read and listen here

©2023 You are a Lawyer LLC.
All rights reserved.